Do you consider yourself a successful, attractive girl who knows how to understand people, and are able to feel for a few quarters of an ideal partner for you for the evening? But, alas, the years fly ruthlessly, and the wedding dress, which you have been dreaming of for so long, you have not been able to at least once wear. And, proceeding from this, the question arises: "So how do you find the companion of your life?"
A Step to Life Changes
1. Note the required object . So, the first stage that helps to change your present in the direction of family life is the requirement to learn to notice men in your society. This should be used even when a young person is engaged in repairing broken plumbing in your house. Try to respect every man, regardless of his social status, financial situation. Thanks to this, you will be able to expand the horizons of your search. Moreover, learn to notice the signs of attention sent to you by men.
To develop the quality of seeing the right candidate in the opposite sex, try to mentally give a compliment to any man who will meet you on the way throughout the day. The main thing is to learn at this stage to form positive thinking . After a while, without noticing it, you will sincerely smile even at those whom you did not pay attention to before.
2. Give the man a chance to prove himself . When you are puzzled by the search for a future spouse, then, to the smallest detail, watch your appearance. But as a result of this, a potential candidate will not be able to show himself to you as a male soul tries to avoid personalities who look at her every day, like a prey. Get rid of the status of "in active search" such a mood, as if you have someone. To do this, try to calm down, smile, tell yourself that everyone seems very sweet to you. Repeat to yourself several times that you do not aspire to make a proper impression on anyone.
With the help of this technique, you will not only attract the male gender, but also be able to disclose the interest of those young people who previously carefully concealed it.
3. Pay attention to all men . The life law of opposites says that it is unlikely that if you are writing on the dating site only tanned, pumped macho, they will first of all answer you. Go from the opposite and consider in your life dating profile exactly those who would not have thought, moreover, would not have looked, even if he was sitting at a nearby table in a cafe. The statistics of the international dating club advises to remember that enviable suitors are reincarnated exactly when next to them is a real woman who loves them.
Pay attention to those who are near you, pay special attention. Try to consider such people as a good sign of destiny, indicating your compatibility. Remember that your ability to be near without any particular manifestation of any resonance, both with yours and with him, indicates the presence in you of an energy balance (some magic of sexual energy). And this, in turn, gives a green light to the progress in the development of relations.
4. Definition of primary compatibility . Do not rush to draw conclusions, choose the one with whom you will go to the altar without talking to this person. Without personal communication, steps toward family life are meaningless. It is known that relationships are an art. But primary compatibility (for example, with the help of numerology) can be determined and it is she who carries the most necessary and objective information. So, if by personal communication you easily refuse the one who is passionately
Psychologists recommend at the initial stage of dating to check a man for the following fundamental qualities for which you will learn to respect him:
- attitude towards women;
- to money (this is the mirror of any person in the relationship);
- seriousness and responsibility;
- those qualities that you value in the opposite field.