Does beats mean love?

One of the most highly publicized topics of our time is the problem of domestic violence. Statistics state that in more than 43% of our families women are susceptible to violence and in more than 13% cases of beating take a regular form. After this information you can not help wondering why a man beats a woman? What pushes him to this terrible act and is there really such a life situation in which a woman can, deserved to be beaten by a man?

Experience has shown that conflicts arise in many families, but not all spouses can find compromises and solve problems with the help of words. Not every person is capable of giving his whole life to his second half and finding a way out of the current situation through diplomatic channels.

A man raising his hand on a woman proves by his actions only that he does not have enough intellectual resources to resolve the conflict with the help of an elementary discussion of the problem. Sometimes it happens that women accuse husband of assaulting themselves, justifying everything by the fact that if a man raised his hand, then I myself am to blame for this. Such women assume the role of mother, therefore it seems to them that the man they cherish and cherish is to some extent their child and at the psychological level there is a sense of responsibility for all his actions.

Why do men beat their wives?

Men very often explain their unlawful actions to the fact that they allegedly had good reasons for raising their hand on the weaker sex.

1. The most common cause of domestic violence is banal jealousy. Helplessness of a man in the situation of alleged or real changes of his woman, leads him into a frenzy, and he tries to self-affirm at the expense of assault. Most of all because of the thought that his wife has found herself another, which means that it is the male pride that suffers the best.
2. Abuse of alcoholic beverages. The fact is that alcohol dependence disrupts a person as a person and leads to the degradation of mental abilities and moral values. In the state of alcoholic intoxication, the man erases the limit of what is permissible, and he begins to act "on emotions."
3. Previously occurring traumatic events. Men from dysfunctional families from childhood, watching the father raise his hand to his mother, are fully confident that assaulting is the only way to resolve conflicts. Traumatic events can not only come from childhood, because the cause of high levels of aggressiveness can be staying in places of deprivation of liberty, military service in "hot spots", etc.

Why is a beloved man beating?

The reasons for beating his wife, a man can find a hundred, but that's enough to confirm or challenge him to force very few people under the force. In the minds of women of our time, the saying "beats" means "loves", so they often keep silent about acts of violence in the family.

The only correct way out in this situation is divorce. According to psychologists, individuals with a tendency to assault, perform acts of violence absolutely consciously, which means that no woman is immune from their recurrence in a long marital life. Do not believe such excuses as "this will never happen again", "I will not do it any more" forgiveness, in this case, can lead to the fact that a man, feeling permissiveness, will continue to dismiss his hands.

To divorce such a man is the duty of every self-respecting woman, because asserting himself by assault, he shows that he is physically stronger and in the family he is in charge, and the key to happy relationships is not to take a leading position in the family.