Loving relationships with a married man are one of the most complex forms of relationships. It happens that it is not easy for a woman or a man to understand them. Such a relationship is difficult to call a relationship between two people. Other people are involuntarily drawn into them involuntarily: spouses, children.
How to build a relationship with a married man?
You can find a lot of advice from a psychologist about the relationship with a married man. However, they all boil down to the fact that a woman needs to have a sober look at the situation from the beginning.
Many mistresses say that a married man does not love his wife, but loves her. Of course, he will say this, because otherwise he will not have extramarital relations. There are different reasons why a married man decides on an extramarital venture. But among these reasons, only a small percentage belongs to the desire to find a new love and leave the family. Quite often a man decides to make a new connection, but he is not at all ready to destroy his family, lose relations with a woman with whom he is linked by years of living together, common life, acquaintances and children.
Relations with a married man are complicated because nothing can be demanded from such a lover. And the worst thing is that the mistress will always be given the role of the second violin. She can have financial support, but only in the amount that remained from the family. She can claim for a joint time, but only when a man furtively escapes from the family.
Often a man goes to extramarital relationships, as an additional, but not a substitute for the family. Such relationships can last for years in an unchanged form. Promises of divorce can be broken about the wife's illness, the age of the child, problems at work.
In this case, the woman begins to suffer, how to understand the attitude of a married man. However, she always knows the truth, but does not want to accept it. The truth is that in such relationships, men often prefer to sit on two chairs: stay with the family and have a mistress. In this situation, a woman should decide on other issues:
- whether she wants such relations, is she ready to stay for them without a full-fledged family;
- Is he always ready to be in the background and be content with what she has left after the family;
- is he ready to wait for many years for his divorce;
- Will he be able to react calmly if a man gets tired of a mistress?
These and other issues need to be resolved immediately, so that later do not make a complaint, not blame the whole man.
How to keep a relationship with a married man?
If, despite all the "buts", a woman intends to maintain a relationship with a married man, she should follow such advice:
- Do not criticize the husband of a man. Even if he complains about it, he can take offense at the words of his mistress, because he still feels connected with his wife.
- Do not tell anyone about these relationships. If the wife finds out by accident about the spouse's extramarital affairs, she can force the spouse to stop her.
- You can not put pressure on a man.
- It is necessary to tell a man about his love and about his importance in life.
- Since most often a man is looking for good sex on the side, a mistress needs to be a professional in this matter.
The relationship between a married man and a married woman
This kind of relationship for many men is more acceptable than the relationship with a free woman. These mistresses are less demanding, they do not need to give expensive gifts, they have little time for meetings, they are easier to react to parting.
However, for a woman such relationships have more negative than positive. Since the woman by nature is emotional and sensitive, the hobby on the side almost immediately becomes visible to family members. That is why marriages with betrayal of a wife end more quickly than marriages with male treason.