Today we'll try to figure out how to ask an apology from a guy if you feel guilty. And for a start it's important to understand for yourself the main rules of apology for a guy:
- Of course, the beloved guy wants to come up with beautiful words of apology, but the main rule is that your repentance should be sincere. How effective the apology will be is not so important, especially if you are seriously offended;
- the beloved must understand that you are aware of your mistake and want to improve the situation;
- Do not try to justify yourself by weaving in apologies to your favorite prosecution guy. How not tempting to shift part of the blame onto his shoulders, postpone it for later - now you are asking for forgiveness;
- Do not engage in self-flagellation, do not humiliate yourself. Ask for forgiveness for what you really are to blame.
How to apologize to a guy?
But, of course, depending on the situation, an apology to a man can be very different:
- pragmatic. If the quarrel is serious, then it is better to manage and serious conversation. Especially if the excuse should be preceded by an explanation. Pronouncing what you think is wrong in your (and not his behavior), you increase the chances of a truce. Especially if you apologize to your husband, because all problems in the family should be negotiated and resolved together, and not zamyazyvatsya abstract phrases;
- romantic. It is believed that this form of apology is suitable for girls, but this does not mean that an offended man will not be pleased to receive from you such a sign of attention. Guys are not spoiled by beautiful deeds, and often it is this step that helps to cause the offended man to talk. You can bake him a cake with an inscription, make a banner with apologies, sing under the window serenade, in general - to show imagination;
- written. A written apology to a beloved man is a good way for those who do not know how to choose words. First, so you can think over every word, beautifully and sincerely express your remorse. If the offense is not very significant, you can
confine yourself to a beautiful text message or a quote on a wall in a social network; - humorous. This method is suitable if you are guilty "in an easy form" and feel that the guy himself does not wait, how could I forgive you. Give him a humorous occasion, sending a funny postcard, or, for example, giving a brick with the words that it should be urgently laid in the foundation of a strong relationship.
Which way you would not choose, go to the end. As our ancestors said: no one is mistaken only who does nothing. He will forgive you, you'll see!