Nobody will argue that the compatibility of people is very important in the team, and even more so in the family. If it is not, then no love and friendship will not save the relationship and will not give comfortable work. But how do you know the compatibility of two people? There are many ways - by type of character, temperament, with the help of psychological tests, to attract palmistry, astrology, numerology, some even try to find people's compatibility by name. But which of the ways can give the most accurate result?
How to check the compatibility of people by temperament?
There are 4 types of temperament: choleric (impulsive), sanguine (mobile), phlegmatic (calm), melancholic (impressionable). Which combinations of temperament types are most successful, and which ones are the least?
- Best will be complemented by people with opposite types of temperament. The urgency of the choleric will be reassured by the phlegmatic, and the sanguine optimist will support the sensitive and sensitive melancholic.
- Phlegmatic-melancholic and sanguine choleric couple will experience more problems in communication. Since the first pair does not have a leader, and the partners will tend to shift responsibility towards each other, and in the second pair there are as many as two leaders, between which the war for the championship will necessarily unfold.
- Even more problems will be with couples choleric melancholic and phlegmatic sanguine. Quarrels are unavoidable here: intemperate choleric people will find it difficult not to offend a melancholic, and in turn it will be difficult not to harbor grievances against a partner. Inconsistent sanguine will irritate the phlegmatic who is inclined to conservatism.
- If we talk about pairs with similar types of temperament, then the most successful will be the union of two phlegmatic or melancholic people. Two sanguine people will get along slightly more difficult, and two choleric people are unlikely to be able to exist for long in one territory.
How to learn the psychological compatibility of people?
The concept of temperament, of course, falls within the sphere of psychology's interests, but is not the main one in determining the compatibility of people. It is necessary to take into account a lot of different factors - physiological characteristics, habits, level of personality development and many others. A full psychological portrait can be made only by a specialist who has observed a considerable amount of time a person's behavior. But to identify the main stumbling blocks can help psychological tests. Just go through them with your mate a little, to be sure that you did not answer all the questions "in jokes".
Esoterics about the compatibility of people
If official science operates with many complex concepts to determine the compatibility of people, then esotericism speaks of the energy correspondence of individuals. But how to determine it, to see the energy field of a person is not possible. To do this, there are many methods - from astrology to palmistry, but without shortcomings, and there has not been. Let's talk about the most common methods.
- Astrology and palmistry can give a fairly accurate description of a person and the prospects for his development as a person. But it is worth remembering that these are serious sciences that require a long and thoughtful study. It takes a lot of nuances to make up the forecast, so there are few real experts in this field, all the others deserve only the title of charlatans and are unlikely to be able to provide you with reliable information.
- Numerology. Here it is a little simpler - there are methods for determining the numbers that affect the fate of a person (usually it's a simple addition of birth date digits), and already by them a personality characteristic is given. You can use the simplest ones yourself, but do not expect 100% hits - this is a characteristic of common features.
- The most common suggestion is to determine the compatibility of people by name. The method is rather doubtful. Yes, the name affects fate, it has long been known, but there are a lot of people who feel that the name does not suit them, they are completely different. This way can tell only about some character traits, most often encountered in the owners of some name. Perhaps, something will be true, and maybe not a single hit - all people are different.
As you can see, it is possible to determine compatibility of people in different ways, but the result will be more or less accurate only with a serious approach.