When, so suddenly for itself, the beloved spouse dies, it seems that life becomes meaningless. And even if you have lived in marriage for many years, left after themselves heirs, it is difficult to imagine how to live on without a kindred spirit. In this case, the priest's advice will help you understand how to survive the death of your beloved husband. After all, as is known, when a person enters the afterlife, relatives on earth should help him to reach Paradise in every possible way.
Tips priest, how to survive the sudden death of a beloved husband
- The deceased person very much needs the care of people close to him who have stayed here on this sinful land. Everyone should remember that as a person, a person does not disappear. He has an immortal soul, but if during his lifetime he was not a believer, then in order to survive his death, one must carefully consider his own soul. First of all, do not fall into excessive grief. After all, discouragement is one of the eight deadly sins. If you let him settle in your soul, then emptiness forms in it.
- Try to calm down, all your strength, love to the deceased, put in prayers . Until the 40th day, pray. This is necessary for your soul and for the soul of your husband.
- Remember that after this life on earth, you will certainly meet with your spouse, so think about whether you are worthy of a good life after your own death. Do not forget that excessive lamentations, wailing over the deceased are incompatible with Orthodoxy. Forget about grief. It will not help either you or a loved one who has gone to another world. Remember that the husband is alive, but he lives with God.
- Write a note and sacrifice in the temple for the peace of the soul of the spouse. Pray more and ask the Lord to help you through this difficult loss. And this rule applies not only to the question of how to survive the death of a husband to a woman at an age, but also to a young widow. Remember that your life on this earth does not end. It is necessary to believe in the Most High and continue to live, to rejoice in every day.