Sadly, but between close people often there are quarrels and grievances. We must not save them in ourselves, but still resolve the conflict and apologize.
Happens, got excited and in the heat of a quarrel I spoke too much. Do not wait until the insult of the mother reaches its climax. Simply, when the passions are just a little bit lower (otherwise it can provoke a new quarrel), say: "I'm sorry, Mom, I was wrong". Or: "I'm unhappy that I offended you, I'm sorry, I did not want to."
If you are used to keeping grievances in yourself and do not know how to ask forgiveness from your mother, write her a letter or SMS, and then do something good for her. Organize an unexpected surprise, buy flowers, for example.
Sometimes we deceive even close ones, although this, of course, must be avoided. But since it so happened, how to apologize to my mother for lying - it's enough to explain the reasons that caused this to happen. Even if the reason, it seems to you, will not be recognized as respectful, now it is not necessary to lie. Try to describe your emotions . Mom will understand, then she and mother.
If you do not know how to properly ask forgiveness from your mother, remember the two rules:
- Do not go immediately to the charges ("But you yourself are to blame for having brought me to this!")
- Do not agree with your mother, if you really do not agree, this will only provoke a quarrel in the future.
How can I ask forgiveness from my deceased mother?
We must pray for it, if we are talking about believing people, put candles, ordering in the church remembrance.
It will now be necessary to remember this fault for the rest of my life, but not to insult myself. After all, all people are wrong ... Try to take it as a lesson and ask for forgiveness in time.
The monks, in accordance with the Scriptures, ask for forgiveness necessarily the same day that the quarrel occurred, precisely because they do not want to take an extra sin on the soul. Probably, and you do not want it? Apologize immediately, as soon as you realized that you are wrong. This will save all unnecessary problems.