The relationship between two close people always looks like an endless ocean. Since morning on the horizon the sun shines and full of calm, but after lunch a hurricane starts, which can destroy the most durable pairs. Cracks in relations occur for many reasons, but an unquestionable chasm between two people can create an excessive obsession of one of the parties. No one wants to allow full control over their feelings, time, and personal space. Obsession in relationships often ends in parting.
Feminine obtrusiveness
Female obsession is perceived by a man as a bad upbringing, or easy behavior. Playing with a man of excessive attention and imposing himself in all cases and for any reason, a woman as if says that she is available. But it is the "forbidden fruit" that is sweet, and not the one that offers itself in all situations.
Obsession at the stage of acquaintance, is also fraught with a rupture of relations. No man can stand the uninterrupted flurry of calls, demands for increased attention to himself, as well as monitoring and reporting on the hours that the pair spent separately.
Another form of obsession is when a woman tries to keep her lover "on a short leash." This is a dangerous game and, as a rule, it ends with parting. After all, the man values freedom most of all. Even if you are bound by marriage, a man wants to be free. We women do not have the right to demand a report from him: "why did he stay at work", or not to let him go for a weekend with a male company. Obtrusiveness manifests itself imperceptibly only for the one who manipulates it, and for the second half it is an intolerable burden.
How to check whether you show obsession to your loved one: you dialed your favorite number, but he was busy and said that he will call back how he will be released. If you are free, you will just wait for his call. If the obsession is inherent in your character, then you will dial the number of a person close to you several times, in order to find out if he has not been released.
Man's obsession
In men, this quality is manifested much less often than women. Most often a man can show his obsession in those moments when he cares for a girl, achieves her disposition, and much less often in marital relationships.
The main problem of the obsessive man is self-doubt and weak self-esteem. A man is not sure that he is worthy of attention on the part of the female, and everything he decides on, is to act unceasingly. However, it is this perseverance which frightens many girls. Such a man should be able to, after a pleasant surprise, which he presented to the lady of his heart, for a short time to disappear. Then your next appearance on the horizon of the relationship, will be welcome for the lady.
What to eat there are symptoms of obsessive behavior?
Calm down. You can not make a person love you more, patronize or give you more attention.
Switch from your desires to your partner's desires. Do not prevent him from being alone when he wants it. Make a list of situations where you are overly imposing yourself, controlling
An excellent solution will be to spend the weekend with your friends, and let your lover understand that you can quite have fun and have fun without it. Only after all this, do not try to find out from him what your second half was doing all weekend.
Give your love, and do not ask for it in return, and then you will never be intrusive towards your second half.