Orgasm after childbirth

Very often women seek the advice of their friends or anonymously write on the forums "Why do not I have an orgasm after childbirth?". Many women after childbirth not only lack orgasm, but it happens that any sexual desire disappears.

Orgasm - is the peak of sexual arousal, during which there is an emotional discharge, as well as the discharge of all muscles, a special small pelvis. What happens to the body and orgasm of a woman after childbirth?

Orgasm and childbirth may be incompatible for the following two global reasons: physiological or psychoemotional.

The physiological reasons why the woman after orgasm disappeared after orgasm include complications due to birth: ruptures, cesarean, hemorrhoids, sluggish vagina after childbirth, etc.

Much more often, the lack of pleasure in sex is psycho-emotional. It is known that most of our problems are in the head.

Here are what kind of fears and doubts disturb mother:

How to get an orgasm after childbirth?

Do not despair if you feel that you have lost the previous sexual pleasure. Further sex and childbirth are still compatible. Just pregnancy and childbirth require restoration for the body of any woman. Serious hormonal, physical and emotional changes disrupt the natural balance of health and psyche.

In order for a woman to enjoy sexual relations with her husband in full and receive an undimmed orgasm, she must be completely situated to her husband, who is not tired, relaxed, rested, and has no fears and doubts in her head.

A few tips for women to solve the problem of lack of orgasm after childbirth:

  1. Pay attention to yourself. Know: pregnancy and childbirth did not make you less desirable for the husband.
  2. Have a rest. In the first months after birth, a child sleeps a lot, rest with him at any opportunity.
  3. Involve her husband in the home. The lack of orgasm in a woman is a consequence of the gap in the relationship with her husband. You spend all the time with the baby, and the man feels left, between you a silent abyss is formed. Find a way to reduce this chasm to a minimum.
  4. From the physiological point of view, it is worth waiting, when all the gaps or seams completely heal. And in order for the muscles of the vagina to quickly return to normal, daily perform Kegel exercises (shortening and relaxing the intimate muscles).

It is worth noting that a certain percentage of women really experience orgasm only after giving birth. Perhaps you also belong to their number. Sometimes only a woman giving birth can fully enjoy an intimate life with a loved one.