Today, the need for diversity and experimentation in bed is no longer needed for anyone, so a phenomenon like anal sex has ceased to be something abnormal. Many women, despite the statements of doctors, practice this type of sexual comfort. Get the first experience of anal sex, they are solved for various reasons: someone wants a variety, someone is inferior to the requests of a partner, and some are aware of the characteristics of their body, looking for new capable of stimulating the most sensitive zones. But whatever you spodviglo this experiment, it is worth knowing how to prepare for the first anal sex, because to do it without understanding some of the nuances, then disappoint yourself and a partner.
Rules of preparation for the first anal sex
You should start with a psychological readiness, if it is not there, then nothing happens. Since, in case of fear, the sphincter contracts, and no penetration of speech can go. Therefore, the main rule of anal sex, especially the first experience, the lack of fear and prejudice. Get rid of the fears you can talk with your partner, agree on his actions. And it is desirable that he was constant, because with an occasional lover it is quite difficult to achieve the degree of trust that a girl needs to relax.
Of course, all the "power" during the process will be concentrated in the hands of the partner, but for your own comfort and you can do something.
- Start preparing for the first anal sex a few days before the epochal moment. Try yourself to stretch the anus, at first you can try to make it neatly with your fingers, having previously blurred them. Anal plugs can also facilitate the adaptation process, which can be purchased at specialized stores.
- Many do not recognize anal sex because of fear of staining their partner or fear of other unpleasant surprises. In fact, if you empty the bowel approximately 2 hours before intercourse and observe hygiene rules, then there should not be any negative moments. Well, the most hypochondriac can use the enema, but remember that it should not be used more than 2 times a month, because there is a risk to wash the whole microflora, and this will lead to digestive problems.
- Get a good lubricant, choose from those that are on a silicone base. Such provide good gliding and are safe for condoms.
- Be sure to use condoms, it is better to choose special ones with increased strength. It is necessary in order to protect the partner from the intestinal microflora, which is absolutely not useful for the genitourinary system. For the same reason, do not alternate anal sex with vaginal without changing the condom.
- Do not even think of taking a porn film as a visual aid. There everything is done for a beautiful picture, which has nothing to do with reality. If you try to repeat, you can get ruptures of the rectum and other equally unpleasant consequences. Therefore, the first time you need to forget about everything that you saw and act extremely carefully.
- Do not plan the first anal experience for the period of menstruation, because during this period the sensations can be more painful. And of course, do not experiment
in the presence of diseases of the rectum.
Anal sex is able to give both partners nothing like pleasure, but we must remember that this pleasure is not for everyone. The anatomical features of some women do not provide an opportunity to stimulate sensitive points of the vagina, so anal sex will not bring any pleasant sensations to them. Important is the size of the partner's dignity, your anus can never stretch to its immodest size. So if after several experiments you did not find anything interesting for yourself, then maybe this kind of sex just is not for you.