Behind several years of marriage, a settled life, communication with friends and the appearance of children. It seems that everything is like everyone else, but there is no harmony in the soul. A faceless conjugal duty on weekends, calls and SMS, relating only to life, and the upbringing of children as a duty. Many families are familiar with this situation and many have found the strength to correct it.
What if I live with my husband as neighbors?
It is necessary to understand that the husband did not become a stranger overnight. Over the long years of living together, each person gets heated baggage of small grievances, claims and omissions, which, like bricks, form a wall used by each partner to protect against encroachments on his inner world. Of course, it will be very difficult to break through and start building a new relationship, but this is possible if you feel that your husband is also uncomfortable staying in this state.
Start to find out the relationship with "Peter 1" - not the best option. It is better to forget everything, not to recall the past and start, as they say, from scratch. If you and your husband have become strangers to each other, and you are burdened by it, then you are "cards in hand". Try again to let him know that he is interesting to you, attractive as a man, and expensive, in the end. Be interested in his affairs, constantly surprise him with something, remember what he was enjoying at the time when everything was fine with you. Bake his favorite cake, buy a disc with the movie that he wanted to see, and if you have not spent time together, it's time to do it. And for dessert, prepare bright sex in a position that your husband had only to dream about.
If the husband became a stranger, this is not an excuse to give up at first and "be blown away." After all, it is clear that a husband can be mad at such a pressure and wonder about the possible reasons for this behavior. Gently, but persistently keep to the course. Start listening to his opinion, if you have not done this before, let him know that you still consider him the head of the family and are ready to obey. When a wife and her husband live like strangers, it's time to change something. A man will never leave a woman who is his
Remember, you will have to invest in these relationships a lot of effort and not the fact that there will be a return. But the chances of establishing everything you have a lot, if the husband is still living with you and is not going to leave. Become for him the way you were at the meeting stage - kind, sweet, affectionate and he will not be able to miss it. In the end, it will melt and your relationship will come to a new level.