Another problem of modern society is gaming. Although it would seem that it's so terrible if a person can get distracted in a computer game from all problems and just relax. But sometimes the beloved spends all his free time in front of the monitor and almost does not notice you.
"He's cheating on me"
Here it is not about another woman and even friends, it's all about the computer. In the morning before work the husband certainly comes into play and, having come home, he will fight, includes the computer and spend the whole evening in front of the monitor, and you watch only the back of the lover and go to bed, seeing the same picture. If you express your discontent, then the answer will certainly sound the phrase: "Can I at least somehow relax and relax ?!" and we have to put up with this situation. But if day after day nothing changes and the husband is completely absorbed in games - it's time to start a fight against the computer.
Plan of "military operations"
- Most men justify the love of games with "difficult childhood", there were few toys and everyone was short. Suggest a favorite alternative, let him play with children, build pyramids, collect puzzles, designers, etc. At first he can resent, but his father's instinct eventually wins.
- If a man is playing, because his life is boring and monotonous, try changing it. Go for a walk, go to the cinema, go to the zoo, travel, thanks to this the husband will find a new passion and forget about the computer. Remind his student dreams, how he wanted to organize his business or something like that, it might be time to implement them.
- What can distract a loved one from a monitor, of course sex . But if you lie down on the bed and call him, it probably will not help. So go to a sex shop and buy yourself a suit, for example, a policeman. As soon as the husband walks through the door, appear before him in all its glory and arrest for bad behavior. To say that he will be surprised, do not say anything. Get him in the form of a game to admit his mistakes and bad behavior, so you show him that there is actually a problem in the relationship, but thanks to this unobtrusive method he will not be angry. After unusual sex, continue your game and get your husband to promise that he will reconsider his behavior, and then such surprises you will do for him much more often. Thus, you will show him that not only the computer has interesting and unexpected situations that can lift his mood .
- Some men play games because they lack the attention of their wives. In this case, everything is in your hands, show your choice that you love him, cherish and appreciate them. Have a romantic dinner or just watch a movie together. The husband has become bored by you, and will be very glad to such attention, and about the computer he precisely and will not recollect.
- Try to play together, maybe you also like to spend your free time like this. Scandals in this case will end, but sex will also disappear, as the two of us will not be able to tear ourselves away from the monitor.
- Try to bring it back to reality with a day of memories. Make a delicious dinner, remember your acquaintance, a wedding, look at the photos, just before that let him give a promise that at least one evening he will not go to the computer. So that he does not have any temptation, arrange with neighbors that they unscrew plugs or pull out the Internet wire. In a calm environment, you can share with your husband your thoughts and feelings about the future relationship.
If the spouse loves you and cherishes the relationship, then he will certainly change his behavior and will spend his free time with his family, not with a computer.