Many girls dream of a wonderful prince and fairy love, which after that will turn into a happy family life. And this dream is very positive and kind. Only love and happiness just do not come, they are created painstakingly and carefully. Therefore, the main thing is to be not only loved, but also loving. And strive to understand how to become good, good, wise and the best for your husband's wife.
This is both easy and difficult at the same time. On the one hand, you just need to love him. But on the other - you will need worldly wisdom and patience, the ability to manage the economy and the family budget, and many more.
The commandments of a married woman
Here are the main "Commandments of a married woman" or 10 tips on how to become a good wife:
- Maintain an order at home and cook deliciously, economically spend money.
- Adjust your behavior to the lifestyle and habits of your husband.
- Receive his relatives and make reciprocal visits. And in any case, do not criticize them!
- Do not compare her husband to other men. Praise and support, making him a successful person.
- Allow periodic meetings with friends in neutral territory. With them, he can be distracted from the monotony of family life and stay a little in a different, masculine atmosphere. Even if they do not like you - do not judge them with your husband, just express your opinion delicately. Over time, either he himself will change his attitude towards them, or you have to put up with their existence. Or try to find yourself another husband, with more suitable friends.
- Give her husband time and space, not always trying to fill it with himself. You do not have to demand attention all the time.
- Convince your love and loyalty. Tell your husband that he is your only man, even if he is not jealous, or is ready to forgive, or believes that everyone has the right to have freedom of relationship outside the family.
- Share with his husband his hobby. And maybe even fall in love. To be interested in football and hockey, to buy special magazines, to know by the names of players. To penetrate his passion for fishing or hunting, or anything else, allocate money for this.
- Reckon with the opinion of her husband. It is important for him to know that his words have weight. Be ready for compromise, do not always insist, and especially - dictate your conditions, sometimes you should let the man decide and act himself.
- Just love and understand your husband. Try to make him happy.
However, these rules, in their own good, still can not be recognized as definitively true. They teach not only how to become a good wife, but also how to manipulate your man. In something to adjust and once agree, but about something to keep silent and hide something ... The main thing is to serve well and not upset.
So it seems that a man is a being that needs custody and control, and a woman with him must behave cleverly and carefully so that he does not know about it.
How to become a better wife?
To become a good wife is not only to be wise and know how to behave with your husband, but also to recognize in him a person, really respect him. And do not follow blindly any rules. After all, one husband needs his wife to be first and foremost a chic and sexy woman, and he does not care what kind of mistress she is. The other is waiting for understanding and support and will not accept the behavior of the "bitch". And the third one does not think of a family without a lot of kids and therefore his wife should be a good mother.
Just be yourself - kind, gentle and affectionate. But at the same time do not forget about yourself. Do not turn into a gray faceless creature, a servant, busy with thoughts of washing, cooking, cleaning, shopping ... Do not take on full responsibility for the well-being of your family. Let and you will have your time and your living space. Watch your appearance, groom your beauty. Change yourself and change something in your home, it will bring novelty and freshness to your relationship and your spouse will never be fed up with you.