The feeling of loneliness is familiar to every person, the only difference is that someone extracts from this state of benefit, and someone suffers and regrets himself. How to deal with loneliness and accept it? On this account, there are many recommendations of psychologists.
How to reconcile with loneliness to a woman?
Female loneliness is more common and more acute. Many women who do not have a family experience an inferiority complex because of this. However, it should be noted that in modern society, many ladies consciously choose a lonely life and condemn them for it only married friends. Most of them are guided by elementary fear , because an unmarried woman is a potential threat.
How to reconcile with female loneliness - you just need to realize all of its priorities.
Someone may argue that a single mother or a divorced woman who brings up children can not take advantage of these tips, as she is forced to work hard to support children. The counter question - do all married women live only at the expense of their husbands? No, most of them are working at home and at work.
How to deal with the loneliness of a man?
Single men - a rare phenomenon, often they are convinced bachelors, who do not need to be convinced of the advantages of their own freedom. But if a man has negative emotions about loneliness, then psychologists advise:
- shake and visit some unusual event, theater, exhibition, festival will suit;
- Change that in your immediate environment - start repairing the apartment, or repair the car;
- go on a non-standard trip, for example, go to the mountains or go down the river.
The man's psyche is more stable and any shake-up gives an opportunity to overestimate the situation and find its advantages in new circumstances.