Time inexorably rushes forward, and before you have time to look back, how your little girl's daughter will become a girl. It is at this stage that the difficulties in communicating with the child for most mothers begin. Let's try to figure out how to establish relations with the daughter when she became an adult and make friends with her, becoming the best friend and adviser in any of her affairs.
How to establish relationships with an adult daughter?
Most mothers do not know how to behave properly with a daughter who has become an adult, because of this, misunderstandings begin to arise, conflicts that can severely alienate close people from each other. Listening to the following tips, you can become true friends with your daughter:
- Never blame your daughter if she does something wrong, just gently remind that you wish her only good, and it would be better to do as you advise it.
- Be for the daughter support and support in difficult situations for her. Do not remain indifferent to her problems, which in your opinion are stupid and not worthy of experience.
- If you see aggression on the part of your daughter towards you, do not answer the same in any way, show restraint, speak calmly, try to find out what causes this reaction on the part of the girl.
- Never abuse your child with strangers, so you humiliate not only your daughter, but yourself.
- Be sure to consider the opinion of your daughter, she should know that you are with her and listen to her advice.
- If you are guilty of something, be sure to apologize and admit your mistake.
- Talk to her on an equal footing, like a woman with a woman, this will help to establish relationships with her daughter, because she will see a friend in you and she will go on rapprochement.