Contrary to common prejudices, female friendship is strong and truly priceless. Therefore, no matter who is to blame for the conflict, each side always wants to restore relations as soon as possible. In this article, we will find out what to say or do, and to make up, and not to harm self-esteem.
How to reconcile with your best friend, if she is to blame?
It is necessary to begin with the realization that one person can not be guilty of absolutely everything. Therefore, even if most of the blame lies on the girl-friend, it's worth acknowledging your mistakes. After all, it often happens that misconduct provokes aggression, irritation and the desire to take revenge on a friend , which does not help to restore friendship. Take the first step and say: "Forgive me, I want to make it up" is quite difficult, especially if there's nothing to apologize for. But it is precisely this position that testifies to the strength of character and the usefulness of the individual. In addition, thanks to such words, the girlfriend will understand exactly how much she means to you, and, most likely, she will also ask for forgiveness.
If apologies were brought to you without long grievances, you should not reject them and continue the conflict situation. Accept the sincere repentance of a person and never again remember this case. Do not also go into the causes of the quarrel and find out the unnecessary details, pay attention to the words spoken in the heat, and the tone of the voice. All these are trifles in comparison with the positive aspects of a strong friendship.
How to reconcile after a quarrel with a best friend - some tips:
- Tell her how important it is for you, what place takes in your life;
- to engage in everyday business: go shopping, visit your favorite places;
- Do not talk about the mistakes of your girlfriend to other members of the company, do not expose her in a bad light;
- Do not remind your girlfriend of her mistakes, do not blame the past;
- wait enough time to restore and strengthen friendship, immediately return the previous relationship will not work.
How to reconcile with a girlfriend, if she is not to blame?
Most often the offender feels much worse offended. After all, not only because of your own wrong words or actions, you remain alone, without a best friend, so self-esteem also significantly decreases. The sense of guilt and awareness of personal insolvency are exacerbated. Therefore, it is so important not to delay with reconciliation, but to try to restore friendship as soon as possible. Do not be afraid to ask for forgiveness - a true friend will always accept an apology without unnecessary words and reproaches. It is advisable to talk personally, to make peace with a friend with the help of SMS or phone call is impossible, because in this way you can not look into each other's eyes and discuss all the misunderstood trivialities.
How to reconcile with friends in the company?
In the event that a quarrel occurred in the company of more than two people, it is especially difficult to resolve the conflict. Everyone sticks to their opinions and their behavior patterns, sometimes even trying to impose it on others. In such situations, it is important to find a compromise that will suit all friends and at the same time not touch their feelings. It is necessary to remember about
- do not try to divide the company;
- Do not gossip about friends with whom you are at loggerheads with other members of the company, do not use the information told to you personally;
- do not try to specifically touch the feelings of friends when meeting;
- Try to collect all together and find out the cause of the conflict;
- Discuss the claims of each member of the company to each other;
- talk about ways to solve the problem that will suit everyone.