Love or habit?

Try to force yourself in the morning to pour cold water. If a person likes the feeling of pleasant tingling of the body, cheerfulness, adrenaline, and sleep as a hand will remove, then, perhaps, it will become a habit. The other, because of their fear, fears and, in principle, dislike for water procedures can not make it their habit.

So love can not become "just a habit". If you can not part with a person, hoping that there is no love, only you are held in a habit, you are deeply mistaken.

How to understand love is a habit and whether the formulation of the question is correct in itself - let's try to figure it out.

Love and Cigarettes

People who have nicotine dependence, in fact, are hostages of their pleasure. Their dependence is due to a love of pleasure, which they experience from a smoked cigarette. A pleasant moment of opening a new pack, a lighter's chirp, an elegant, languid stream of smoke, a casual conversation with a colleague ... Such moments are pleasant to a man, he likes to smoke. This moment is more psychological than physiological. The organism is easier to survive the refusal to smoke, it is perfectly self-healing, which can not be said about the psyche.

What actually distinguishes love from habit and how to distinguish them is a question of interest to many. Love remains love. It does not become a habit for one simple reason: it is impossible to get used to things that are indifferent and disgusting to us. As soon as the love has passed, the passion has disappeared, the partner began to irritate, therefore as its disadvantages were exposed - anybody will not keep you. You will go looking for your happiness with another person. Otherwise, you will stay, but not because of the habit. You can stop raising children, the fear of not meeting anyone better and staying alone, you can withhold the material side, but not the habit. In most cases, it's just an excuse.

Since the habit becomes what we like to do, it means that it will be logical to talk about the habit of loving. Love will become a habit when it first appears. The habit of taking care of, participating in the life of a loved one - our behavior will become a habit based on love. There is a big difference in this. There can be a separate habit and love can not.

In other words, love is a necessary condition for the formation of a habit.