Every language has a myriad of words. Where, then, do the unnecessary word parasites come from? Let us turn to the origin.
Words-parasites are words for a bundle of speech. They firmly entrenched in the vocabulary of a man, they entered not only into colloquial speech, but also into a habit. The word parasites do not mean anything at all. These are empty words-weeds, they must be disposed of. A person who uses such words in his speech does not notice them, he is used to it. However, weepy words prevent not only understanding and perception of speech, but also tire the interlocutor.
When speech arose, speech parasitology also arose. Gradually, weaving words filled our ranks and increased the number of our victims.
The causes of the use of words-parasites
- limited vocabulary. Little educated people suffer from the presence of word-weeds much more often. Although there are exceptions;
- low speed of thinking. When a person can not quickly navigate and find the right word, he usually uses the sound of parasites for a hitch. This is known to everyone: "Eee," "A-ah," "Mmm." It should be noted that such sounds irritate a lot and "cut" the rumor;
- intentional use of weird words. For someone, this style of communication is part of the image, image. There are people who purposely insert parasitic words, and it even happens to be appropriate;
- reflection of human nature. The use of certain weird words can tell something about a person. If the word "parasite" is used in the speech "shorter", it means that a person does not want to burden himself with conversations, explanations, he is a lazy person for life. "In fact" wants to open truth to people, a person struggles for the truth. "You understand it" is an example of a justified and constantly apologizing to others around him.
Modern youth uses in their speech such parasitic words as: "pancake", "type" and "like". They mean indecision , conventionality, imagery of the thoughts and actions of young girls and boys. Abusive words in speech speak of a low intellectual level, which can be sympathized with. In time, fortunately, for many it passes. Using words-parasites, you very much spoil your speech and impression of yourself.
How to remove word-parasites?
Let's talk now about how to get rid of the words-parasites in your speech. First of all, you need to learn how to control your speech. In addition to strict control, you need "sanctions" for yourself. If you set a goal to learn to speak beautifully and develop eloquence , then be categorical in your decision.
Speaking about how to deal with words-parasites, it is important to note the need to replace them with something else. The following method will prove to be quite effective, if you take it with all responsibility.
Choose the right sound for yourself. It can be meowing, chirping, barking or barking. As soon as you notice behind yourself that you have pronounced a weed word, then follow "fine" yourself with crowing. Crowd in a speech croak? That's right, so are your words-parasites absolutely superfluous in conversation. Believe, replacement
From the point of view of psychology, parasitic words are considered one of the ways to overcome stops in speech activity. When a person can not quickly formulate an answer in a conversation, an unpleasant pause occurs. It triggers a subconscious reaction - filling with a smack, coughing, repeating words and weed words.
Sometimes it is better to remain silent, especially since the art of persuasion is based on timely and correctly made speech pauses.