In psychology, the mirror principle is often used, but what does it mean, what is its essence? The main motto of this method is "Do unto others as you want them to do to you." "Mirror Principle" is the fastest and right method to use to learn your own "I". This rule should apply to every area of your life: work, friendship, and even relationships with the opposite sex. It's not for nothing that you can often hear the phrase: "Do not judge by yourself," and this is how the "mirror principle" manifests itself.
Estimate ourselves
This method helps to see yourself from the outside and understand what you are doing wrong. For example, you observe a person and his behavior is very annoying, but in fact you see yourself, only in such situations it is impossible to recognize this. Your surroundings reflect the inner world of the person who is hiding in everyone. The "mirror principle" is best seen on children, as they reflect the behavior of their parents.
Changing life
First, think carefully about what you want from life: good friends, a happy family, a career , etc., because, as you know, thoughts are realized. After this, it is necessary to think about what methods to achieve the desired, good or bad? Want to be happy - treat others also. Here, for example, you want to find a good and reliable guy, then think about it constantly and do not change your goals, as they say, what you are looking for, you will find. There is no magic here, just the law operates in the world, that your actions, communication with others, etc. lead to the corresponding result. In this case, the principle of the mirror acts - "like you, so do you."
Couple to pair
Many people are very similar to each other, they share the same behavior and the principle of communication, that is, if you are an evil hated bitch, then the environment will be appropriate. Before you get acquainted with a person, follow his behavior, whether you like it or not, evaluate it by looking in the "mirror", that is, compare with yourself.
Here's how to behave in a relationship to get what you want:
- The goal is only sex. In this period of life from the opposite sex you need only carnal pleasures, without any seriousness, then behave accordingly. Clothing, behavior, speech, manners, everything should be reduced to one. Such women are really lucky, as they will be able to find quite a few men who pursue such a goal.
- The goal is a serious and lasting romance. In this case, the behavior must be radically different, in comparison with the first option. Trust the partner, appreciate him, love, inspire, thanks to this behavior, you will certainly achieve such a reaction in response.
We look in the mirror and draw conclusions
Many women dream of beautiful punched guys who will wear them on their hands, but basically it's still a dream. What is the reason? Look at yourself in the mirror, how do you look, like a woman who deserves to be close to the "prince"? If not, then forward to change. Proper nutrition , regular exercise, shopping, beauty salon, all this will help reincarnate and change
Building life on our own
"The principle of a mirror" can be applied even in the planning of their leisure. Want to have fun with your friends, but for some reason they are silent, then it's time to take matters into your own hands and organize a party. Implement all that you expect from others, and the response will not be long in coming.
Conclusion
If you make a person something bad, he will not answer you with a smile. Remember once and for all that you get what you deserve. Only in this way you can make your life harmonious and happy.