Courtesy of the schoolboy

The approach to the upbringing of children around the world is very diverse. For example, in Japan, a child is allowed to behave as you like, but only until the age of five. Rules, prohibitions, incentives - all this is inherent in the education of children older. The most important thing that the Japanese learn their children - to live in society. The results of such education are evident - the Japanese society is one of the most progressive in the world.

In our country, things are very different. But what prevents us from educating in the key of politeness and goodwill? On the secrets of the education of a polite child, read on in our article.

How to teach the child courtesy?

When it comes to how to instill a child into something, it is important to know that the most important "training tool" is you - the parents. From the first months, the baby begins to copy the facial expressions of the parents, the tone of the conversation. And what does it say about older children? So, the first rule is to become an example to your child.

Explain to the child what is politeness, prepare a list of mandatory polite words for children, which will contain the minimum of the most necessary words:

1. "Hello" - welcome the person, we wish him health.
2. "Thank you" - thank the person.
3. "Please" is an expression that we respond to gratitude.
4. "Sorry" - when asking for forgiveness.
5. "Goodbye" - say goodbye to the man.

Courtesy of the schoolboy

The rules of courtesy for children do not differ much in common. But the fact is that the school is a place where the child's skills go through a serious test for strength.

A multi-coat contingent of very different children does not always have a positive effect on your child. Therefore, it is important to explain to the child that, regardless of the circumstances, it is always necessary to observe the rules of courtesy for children, to remain calm, and not to be kept on provocation. Goodwill is the key to success in school, and not only.

Teach your child to smile and always greet first, respond kindly to the requests of classmates and avoid conflicts, thank for the service provided and so on.

It is also important to explain to the child that the teacher deserves special respect and good treatment. Before turning to the teacher - you need to raise your hand, and after he is given the floor - to speak.

Behavior in a change is a separate topic. Explain to the child that the change is the time when you need to relax a little, prepare notebooks and books for the next lesson, and talk with classmates.