There is no way easier to be seen among friends as frivolous and even bitch, rather than begin to meet with a married man. You turn into a razluchnitsu, from which the girlfriends prudently hide their husbands, and which at best read the lecture, and at worst - grind the bones behind him. To meet a married man is a sin, and an unpardonable sin - that's what they're trying to tell you. But is it?
So it is customary to blame a woman for treason, which, they say, led the man away, as if he had abandoned the goat in the clearing. But if he could love (yes, so that he could agree to become a wife), the other thing is that it's amazing that this man likes another woman. In the end, everyone has the right to fight for their own happiness, and the methods that we choose remain only on our conscience.
Whether to meet a married man is your business. Besides the spoiled public opinion, you risk with your heart. Stories about how long men can feed their chosen women with promises have already become a byword. Love is accompanied by respect, and therefore it is logical to assume that a loving man will try to make sure that his beloved does not meet with a married man, exposing himself to inevitable humiliations. Simply put, he will try to take responsibility, not forcing you to hide.
But if you are not the first month you hear that:
- in the family is now a difficult period (someone is sick, nervous breakdowns, hysterics, etc.), and only after overcoming difficulties you can finally be together;
- to his wife's chosen one has not touched for several months and, in general, they live like strangers.
... most likely, you will have to be content with the role of a mistress and beyond. Why should a man break an idyll (and in his view, the situation is exactly like this), in order to share property and inevitably make enemies.
When you meet a married man without claiming his heart, everything seems much easier. Not you, so the other, for sure, will become his mistress. However, with a free man to be in a sexual relationship is much calmer.
Where to meet a married man?
Rule one: never come to his house. Respect another woman, she is not the enemy of the people only because she met your beloved before.
If you have your own home, and you are not afraid of explanations from neighbors, then you can bring a man to yourself. However, it is better not to let in personal space in a hurry. Look at how your relationship will develop. To a greater extent, care about where to meet should be on the man. Whether it's a hotel, an apartment with an hourly rate or a sauna - let it be the first to take the initiative. On it you will be able to determine the degree of seriousness of your relationship.