Alcohol, a sad song and the company of girlfriends - all this is necessary for the girl to survive the parting with her beloved. And how do men experience separation and do they do it in principle? Maybe it's only the beautiful sex that sheds tears, remembering the joyful moments spent together, doing rash acts "to spite him" and listening to friends telling "such as you have another hundred will be." Let's see how heartless our halves are, and whether the termination of relations affects them as well as on us.
How do men experience separation?
To begin with, it is worthwhile to figure out whether men in general are experiencing separation , or for them the rupture of relations due to polygamy is something so natural, what should not special attention be paid to? If we are talking about a passing hobby, then it is unlikely that a man will experience the termination of meetings with a girl, an easy novel does not imply the formation of strong bonds, and therefore the gap will not be felt, as something tragic. But if it is a question of long-term relationships, then the situation is different. Despite the external restraint, the emotions of our strong half are not at all alien, especially bright they will be at the initiation of the parting of the girl. Then the wounded pride will also come into force, the man simply has to be the first in everything, which means that he should have said "goodbye" to him.
Since we found out that men are experiencing separation, it remains to understand how they do it, and how long this state lasts. Inability to openly show their feelings makes it impossible for a man to use favorite female methods to survive grief - sobs in a pillow and gatherings with close people. Representatives of the strong half of humanity have several other techniques.
- Find a temporary girlfriend. This allows a man to reassure his pride and prove to himself that he is absolutely competitive, and the whole thing was in his ex who could not appreciate his happiness. Of course, in most cases, such novels do not last long, and the man begins to change the passions, like gloves. Although, sometimes, after such a respite, there is a need for long-term relationships, so the man turns out to be looking for a suitable partner. At that moment, attempts are being made to reunite with former wives and girlfriends, who are so fond of female novel authors.
- Another way, with the hunt used by writers of "soap operas", is an attempt to drown grief in alcohol. Another thing is that it does not always look like in the cinema - an unshaven man in an alcoholic vest, a dirty apartment, a bottle of vodka and burned food. Your former may well look presentable, and even travel around the clubs, it's just that his sphere of interests will be limited to the old postulate of "getting drunk and forgetting".
- Everyone is aware of a great way to forget about problems - changing the situation. If a man is wealthy, then he is most likely to use this method, having left for the resort, where it is possible to combine all three of the above methods.
- Another popular way for men to survive the parting is to leave their heads in a hobby, often they are computer games. And often this
hobby becomes a real addiction, a man begins to spend too much time and money on virtual reality.
As for the time of experience, everything depends on the person and the depth of the feelings he feels. Some men fixate on their object of passion, follow its life for years, literally pursuing the former partner in the virtual space. Others, after burning for less than a month, gather with spirit and make attempts to improve their personal lives. Still others simply stop believing women, starting to use them to meet their needs.