Often there are situations that put the girls in an embarrassing situation. Meetings, conversations, relations are sometimes interrupted suddenly by constant attempts of the second half to hide and move away. How should we act if a man loves and shuns? And does he love if he avoids?
Why does a man avoid communication?
Avoiding communication, a man can for various reasons, much depends on the circumstances and term of your acquaintance. So, let's consider the most frequent reasons why a man avoids contact with a woman:
- He planned only one-time sex, he has an official spouse or girlfriend, and he is experiencing, how would your importunity did not become a hindrance to his measured life.
- He suspects you of infidelity and moved away to conduct his own investigation.
- He changed and feels guilty (in such cases, a man often avoids looking into the eyes).
- He retires after a heavy quarrel and just does not want to start the showdown again.
- He wants to make it clear that your society no longer interests him.
- He has problems at work or in other spheres of life, he is locked in himself.
- He learned about you some unpleasant fact, and he wants to rethink the situation.
- He is in deep depression and avoids communication with anyone at all, and not just with you.
- He met another, and is captured by communication with her, and you stay away.
- He is seriously ill and does not want to inconvenience you.
As you understand, there can be very many reasons. And if a man in love avoids a woman, it is doubly strange, because a truly in love person always seeks communication.
What if the man avoids?
If you are acquainted with a man for a relatively short time, it is quite possible that in this way he seeks to refuse to communicate with you. Not everyone has the heart to come up and say directly: "Sorry, we can not meet anymore." In such cases, weak people do not answer calls, evade meetings, and indirectly make it clear that they are not interested in communication. In this case, nothing to do is not necessary, just release the person and proudly go on.
If you are in a relationship for a long time, and do not see the reasons for such behavior, then you have no options, except one: to dig up arguments and talk with a man. Watch him for a couple of weeks, if possible, noting the evidence of his abnormal behavior in the form of SMS messages, etc. When you collect enough facts, analyze and make sure that this is not your invention, but the real state of things, it is worth talking to a man.
The conversation is better to build on this scheme:
- Find out if he has problems at work, studying, with relatives, cars, etc. Perhaps he is just bad and he is locked in himself.
- If in all areas of his life the order is complete, ask why your meetings have become so rare, and whether this is your fault. A weak person will certainly begin to deny, but here you can bring your evidence, which you prepared in advance.
- Ask if he would like to take a time out and relax from your relationship, not to see each other for a week or two? Sometimes it is just necessary for a person to begin to appreciate his soul mate.
As a result of such a conversation, it is worth finding out the reasons and asking how you can help him in dealing with them, because his behavior spoils your relationship .
In any case, avoidance is always an alarming symptom. A loving person wants to spend most of his free time with his beloved, and if this does not work for your relationship, perhaps the feelings are not the same. Do not drop your hands ahead of time, find out everything you can and make a decision on this.