Sick of love

Love is one of the most beautiful feelings in our world. It gives wings, exalts, fills with sunlight ... It gives life, is able to revive with only one touch, saturates and nourishes without food.

But why does love sometimes hurt? Where does the frozen look, puffy eyes, sleepless nights? ..

Healthy love - in truth, happiness and miracle, a loving person is filled with positive. And it hurts from love when it is based on neurotic attachment, negativity, hatred. This feeling of pain and fear of the possibility of losing a loved one. That's why it hurts from love. Specialists even distinguish a certain disorder of the psyche, an obsession that is called - a love neurosis. On the one hand it is similar to love, but to love in its true meaning does not apply. A person with such an unhealthy state feels a break without his object of lust, his thoughts are centered only around one of this feeling, he can even physically be really bad. Such a love-dependent person can be overly controlled by those to whom he feels a feeling, or vice versa, is excessively aggressive towards him. It depends on the personality of the person himself, his character. Most often, the state of painful attachment arises against the background of the inherent predisposition of each particular person. Sick love is nothing but addiction, it is very similar to other kinds of addictions. In this state, a person is literally obsessed, sick with another person, he is dependent on him, as on the dose of the drug. Often people with such a dependence on love can be dangerous, for the reason that they are absolutely unpredictable. Their behavior is often inadequate, and deeds are illogical. Sick love is a destructive force, it sweeps everything in its path, even the most radiant and sincere feelings.

How to get rid of sick love?

First, you should stop the telephone terrorism of your loved one, better call your girlfriend and get distracted from the compulsive desires. Secondly, do not make dramatic scenes, believe me, you will never be able to tie a man to yourself with coercion and blackmail. And finally, love is a wonderful feeling, but go in for your favorite business, take your time off to work, study or hobby, know how to find pleasure not only in love.

Do not turn our bright feelings into fanaticism, because otherwise any interest, sympathy or even love develops into a disease that feeds the evil forces. Our life is so short, so let's fill it with only positive and bright feelings.