"Life without friends is a nightmare!" - many will say and will not be so wrong, because even convinced introverts sometimes need friendly support. But what if there are no friends? To begin to understand what you are putting into the concept of "friend" and determine whether you really have no such people in the environment, no one who could be considered a friend.
What if I do not have any friends?
So, you thought and decided "I have absolutely no friends, and I do not know how to live without them," if everything is so, then we must urgently look for them. And, now it is important to just find acquaintances for communication, do not immediately install a program "I'm looking for a best friend." For such friends do not immediately become, so you just need to start communicating more. Where you do this, think up yourself, based on where you are more. The first thing that arises is work (study) and the Internet. But you should not limit yourself to them, maybe for a long time you were going to learn to dance salsa or do yoga? Well, so go ahead, at the same time and familiar new ones will lead. And if you have a dog, it's generally wonderful - owners of pets always have something to talk about - first about the tricks of feeding and training, and then maybe, and become good friends.
The main thing do not be afraid to start the conversation first, show sincerity - you are for sure an interesting conversationalist, so do not be afraid to show it to others.
What if there are no friends at work?
Many complain that there are not any friends at all, and they can not establish friendly relations at work with colleagues. Think about it, but do you really need it? Good communication with colleagues is excellent, but friendship does not always work. How many stories there are about former friends whom the work has quarreled. Therefore, if you are out of the working team with communication and friends are all right, then do not worry because of their lack of work.
What if there are no real friends?
It happens - there are many friends, but there is not a real one. What to do in this case? To start again, revise the list of your friends and make sure that there really is not one with whom you "ate a pud of salt." If you understand that this is really so, then you should try to understand the reason? Maybe it's you? Do you often "cry" to friends for your problems, not wanting to listen to them? Do you concede something to your friends or constantly impose your opinion on them? If you have problems with communication and respect of other people's desires, then it will be difficult to find a real friend - your vulnerable gentle soul simply can not be considered behind thorns.
Well, what if one does not fit among the existing friends for the role of the present? You have only one way - to find new friends and do everything to make one of your new acquaintances become a best friend.
What to do when there are no friends?
Suffering from boredom and loneliness is traditionally advised to communicate with friends more often. And what to do, if these same friends are not available? The best option is to look for them, and you will find a person for communication and entertain yourself. Well, if you can not get in touch with anyone in any way, do not worry, use your free time,
And if you just want to share your experiences and thoughts with someone, and not with anyone (usually everyone can withstand the ears of our dear friends), then tell your blog about it. You can make it interesting, there will be readers whose opinions coincide with yours. Here to you and new acquaintances for dialogue. And who knows, maybe there is a person on the other side of the monitor who will become your best friend.