How to learn to competently talk?

A good speech is part of your image. It is believed that speech is 25 percent of the overall impression of a person. At the same time, the interlocutor notices first of all the beauty and literacy of speech, but also voice and diction are important.

Even when your communication is limited to your family and neighbors, knowing how to properly communicate with people will be saved in different life situations. People will hear you and reckon with your opinion, finally, you will be just a great conversationalist, with whom it is pleasant to talk. If you work in a team, a competent conversation will help your career, increase your importance in the eyes of others, you deserve respect from colleagues. This will be an excellent help for all kinds of speeches at conferences and meetings. The head or the person applying for this position is obliged to know how to properly and beautifully talk because he is the face of the company, and speech helps him to lead people to him, find business partners, conclude deals. Opposite the poor lexicon and the inability to convince the interlocutor can cause trouble at the most inconvenient moment.

Learning to speak correctly

  1. If you want to learn how to properly talk, then take the habit of reading, at least fifteen minutes a day and best of all classics - it is a sample of artistic speech. Reading enriches speech, expands vocabulary, helps a person build sentences correctly and clearly express thoughts. Involuntarily you will remember some words and expressions that you can then use in conversation.
  2. At leisure, study synonyms. They will help to accurately reflect your thoughts and will avoid in the conversation the words-parasites, ligaments and interjections, which make the speaker's speech inexpressive, unintelligible and irritate the interlocutor.
  3. Do not use words that you do not know the meaning of. Directories and explanatory dictionaries of the Russian language will help expand your vocabulary. Remember the correct stresses in words.
  4. Increase the talk time. If there is nobody to talk to, turn on the TV and try to adjust to the talk of the announcer. To achieve the desired effect, you need to speak out loud. As a result of these exercises, you will expand the lexical stock, and you will form a smooth speech with the right intonational pauses.
  5. Eliminate in your speech superfluous words that do not add meaning and do not attach any information to what was said.
  6. At leisure, retell someone you like movies and books. Observe, for the reaction of listeners to your speech and try to arouse their interest.
  7. Avoid long pauses and observe the coherence of speech.
  8. The ability to correctly and beautifully present information can be learned by performing the following exercise - "talking about nothing." Try for 5 minutes, write a beautiful literary language about an item, for example, about a cup, then choose another subject of conversation. Gradually increase the time of exercise. Over time, you can communicate easily on any topic.
  9. Do not use slang and obscene words. Do not use scientific terms that are not known to others. And also avoid pattern phrases.
  10. Only vocabulary will not make your conversation literate, you need more skills to correctly build sentences, clearly and accurately express thoughts. To improve these skills, try to pick up a definition for a word, for example "beautiful is ..." Or on paper write the words and make out of them sentences. The more you get out, the better.
  11. Daily training improve the technique of speech. Stand by the mirror and tell yourself about your present day, controlling gestures and facial expressions.

A person who knows and knows how to competently talk with people around them is considered smart and educated. Learn to speak correctly, you want to achieve success in life?