Recently it is considered that these guys and men need to be listed in the Red Book, as they are less and less common. But if you look at the situation from the other side, every day people find their soul mate, every day new families are created. And who then fall in love, and for whom do women marry, if, in the opinion of some, there are no real men left in the world?
If the girl has not yet met her one, it does not mean that the strong sex has ceased to be so, perhaps still ahead. But it can also happen that a girl puts forward inflated or incorrect demands on her chosen one. If you have not decided what your boyfriend should be, we will try to help you.
What qualities should a guy have?
Well, of course, you should not stress the physical qualities of a person. Although not often a girl rejects a guy just because she's taller. In this case, the girl is guided not by her preferences, but by the stereotypes and opinions of others. But imagine for a moment that the girl herself has a fairly large growth (for example, 190 cm), what should she do? Not so that many men have a higher growth, and this even if we do not take into account the fact that this same girl though sometimes, but still will wear heels. Do not remain her one because of such stupid stereotypes, do not you? In fact, what growth should your guy decide only for you (if this factor for you at all matters), and not to others and girlfriends. Therefore, it is better to dwell on the internal qualities of a young man.
The first place is rightfully reserved for the intelligence of the guy. This quality can be called the "foundation" of this guy. But the concept of "intellect" is so broad that it will not be possible to characterize it in a few words. This curiosity, and the ability to analyze, and logical thinking, and many other qualities. Assess the level of intelligence in a guy can only be with personal communication. Based on the grades in the school certificate does not make sense. A round high achiever can be a complete bore, while a dvoechnik can be a very interesting and erudite person, and get two for his behavior.
What else should be the ideal guy? Girls give preference to well-bred guys. Yes, some like "bad" boys, but the basic elements of being educated they should be inherent. Otherwise, the hobby of such a person will not last long.
In addition, the guy should be determined. Still, the guy should lead the relations, the girl can make her own corrections, make any decisions, but the most important and important questions the guy should be able to solve himself. If he is constantly
An important advantage of a guy is his responsibility. This quality is particularly important in family life. And of course he should love children. After all, we build relationships with the guys for the purpose of creating a family, and if a man does not like children, and does not want to start them, then do not waste your time on it.
It is not rare for a girl to ask: "What should a real guy be like?", Answer: "Special." And what is so special about it? The answer is complex and simple at the same time - EVERYTHING! A real guy should not imitate anyone, neither externally nor internally. Those guys who are trying to imitate somebody have those qualities that frighten off girls, namely: self-doubt, lack of comprehensiveness, closeness, maybe even have an inner grievance and a sense of anger.