The wedding day is the long-awaited day for many girls. All preparations, expectations, exchange of rings and a bright wedding day cause only enthusiastic feelings for future brides. When documents and a new passport are received after the wedding, then the woman begins to gradually realize that a great change has come to her life. Together with this often comes the question: "What to do after the wedding?". Many brides are interested in how life changes before and after the wedding.
Unfortunately, quite often, a month after the wedding, the first disappointments come. When behind the honeymoon and the first night after the wedding, it's time for routine. Many women, whose future husband was associated with the image of the beautiful prince and perfection, are not easily experienced the drastic changes in their lives.
As a rule, a month after the wedding, the life of lovers is changing - the previously hidden traits of character, habits, and hobbies begin to manifest. This all may absolutely not correspond to the female notions of family life. A man after a wedding can dramatically change in the eyes of a woman - he ceases to cause a great delight, but becomes closer, able to share not only joys, but also ills. At this time comes the turning point - the moment of awareness of the couple's full belonging to each other, a sense of responsibility and stability. These changes can cool feelings of vivid love for each other. In order to preserve love after the wedding and make it stronger and sublime, it is necessary to work, and work for both spouses. Honeymooners should learn to understand each other, care, empathize and pay attention. In fact, it turns out to be much more complicated than in words. Building a common life can be difficult, but only after going through all the stages of the relationship after the wedding, the family union becomes strong.
The Golden Rules of Family Life
There is one simple law - after a different period of time, each married couple, even passionately in love, from fervent relationships goes to a more calm and measured. Newlyweds should not be afraid of this, it is necessary to accept and appreciate every stage of the relationship, whatever it is. The main task of every woman is to bring warmth and comfort to the family and pay more attention to her husband. Naturally, we should not forget about ourselves.
Folk wisdom says - you can not be disappointed without being fascinated. If a woman finds in her new husband a bunch of flaws after the wedding, it means that she created an idol and did not accept reality as she is. The more perfect the chosen one, the more disappointments await in life after the wedding. In this situation, neither his wife nor her husband is easy. The woman ceases to see her husband's dignity and begins to plague him with resentment and reproach. A man, in turn, can not understand why the relationship changed after the wedding? Such unions are often extremely fragile and end
The more we give, the more we get. This famous rule applies to family life. By showing patience and understanding, every woman can count on it from her spouse. But anger, anger or resentment give rise to similar feelings in our second half. If you take your husband as he is and give him a feeling of love, despite all his shortcomings, a woman creates reciprocal feelings in her husband's soul.
Save the love after the wedding of two sincerely loving people is easy, the main thing is to be patient and trust, love, appreciate and respect each other.