If you fall in love with a falling star: "I want to marry successfully for love" (and even add "and urgently"), and on a starless night repeat these words as a mantra - it is likely that so natural for every girl desire you it's time ... let go. But there is good news - this is the last step outlined in this article. It is preceded by the correct formulation of desire, and concrete steps that give confidence that marriage is not a distant dream, but a tangible reality. So, dear future brides, let's find out how to increase your chances of a family.
Step 1. We form the right wish
To begin with, think: why do girls want to get married. Because "for" a husband they feel that they, like women, are protected, loved (at least in the eyes of others), necessary.
On the other hand, it often happens that a girl wants and hastens to get married, because "so necessary." Think: your "really want to get married" with what is connected? If the reason is that public opinion is hurrying you, then you should wait for a change in priorities.
Now ask yourself: what kind of man do you want to find. "If only what" is the wrong answer. He says that you do not appreciate yourself, and correct self-esteem is an important step on the road to marriage. Remember: you are not alone, you are a free woman. Wedding dress, flowers and congratulations - this is your future.
Step 2. Believe in yourself
Psychologically, this can be difficult, especially if you recently had a painful break. However, there are quite effective methods that help significantly increase women's self-esteem:
- sign up for a consultation with the stylist. Be prepared for a cardinal image change: a good specialist should not pick up an analogue of the things already in your wardrobe. Do not forget to inform your image maker about your intentions, so that the wardrobe will meet your goal;
- pamper yourself. A woman in love with herself exudes fluids, attracting men. If there is no opportunity to pamper "large", drink tea from an expensive service "for special occasions", wear beautiful underwear, buy yourself new perfume or flowers.
Step 3. A few witchcraft tricks
There are lots of rituals and even charms, promising an early settlement in your man's house. But conspiracies are dangerous. We suggest using "harmless" methods:
- take a sheet of paper and describe your future husband in the smallest detail;
- known advice for a girl who wants to get married: buy men's slippers. One can not limit oneself to shoes: let the chosen one wait in the house for a robe and, for example, a toothbrush;
- the secrets of feng shui will also help draw a couple into the house. The bedroom and the south-western part of the house is a zone of love. Crystals, embroidered paintings, paired fish figurines - these items traditionally serve the execution of the female "I want to marry."
Step 4. We go out into the light
To get married, you need to be where there are men. And do not just be in the male thread, it is important that some of the men met with you regularly. So part of them in the future is converted into suitors. A woman who is surrounded by attention becomes a magnet for men.
Tip: immediately sift out married men and inveterate ladies' men (as there is not a temptation to re-educate them).
Step 5. Release your desire
That the desire to marry is not transformed into paranoia, it is important to let him go. It does not mean to abandon your plans, just relax and have fun. The running line "take me" can still attract a man, but "take me in marriage" is already unlikely.
A lonely woman often makes a man run, free - gives birth to a desire to conquer. So, if you get in a relationship, you will enjoy the company of a loved one, not an obsession: "I want to get married, what to do."