The question of why people are afraid of their feelings can be considered rhetorical. After all, everyone knows that it is the feelings that can hurt the most painful - if they are not recognized, ridiculed, not noticed, reproached. That's why many people prefer not to reveal their souls to others.
Why do men fear their feelings?
Despite the fact that it is men who are recognized as a strong gender, they have the greatest difficulties with expressing feelings. From their childhood they are taught that emotions are for girls, and a man must be unruffled and strict - no tears, no embraces, no displays of affection. That's why if a man is afraid of his feelings, it can be considered a norm. So he was brought up.
Often happens also such, that the man aspires to live logic, a head, cold calculation. This often indicates that in the shower he is very vulnerable, and this is just his defensive reaction, which helps to cope with the world around him. All the same, we are all people, and emotions are inherent in each of us.
When a man is afraid of confessing feelings?
As a rule, men are all the same directed to the performance of actions, and if someone likes them, they will seek the attention of the object of love. But sometimes a person is simply not sure that his feelings are answered, and is afraid to move on to active activities. After all, there is nothing more painful and unpleasant than to hear in return a refusal, a grin, a rudeness.
There are different types of women - some arrogant and cold, others open and friendly. As a rule, the latter are much more likely to hear confessions - and not because they fall in love more often. Simply they are not so scary to approach, to engage in dialogue, communication. In addition, the man expects that such a woman will have enough tact to respond gently to recognition, no matter what this reaction is.