All of us from childhood prepare for the fact that when we grow older, we will definitely have a family, a house - a full cup, clever, obedient children and a sense of boundless happiness. But often it happens that time goes by, a girl grows up, and ... nothing happens. And like a figure, nature has not offended, and the face is cute, but there is no personal life and that's it. And while some successfully marry, others tirelessly ask themselves: "Why am I lonely?". And really why? Let's get to the bottom of this problem.
Why does a person feel lonely?
In our noisy and fast time, loneliness no longer surprises anyone. Work in large cities requires considerable physical and mental work, and even time kills too much. A classic case where, after a hard day's work, a person returns to an empty apartment, where no one waits for him. And the time and energy for finding a relationship or meeting with friends from the majority is only on weekends.
This is one of the reasons why girls are lonely. This is particularly evident in large cities. While on the street day, there are friends, friends, transport moves, loneliness is not so noticeable. But as soon as evening comes, and people scatter to their homes, there is a feeling of emptiness and uselessness. For the same reason, nightclubs are created where a person can dispel this sensation. However, the Internet and the telephone are more popular now, where people try to escape this oppressive feeling. Many psychologists have recognized that virtual communication is a good prevention tool against depression and nervous breakdowns. After all, by its very nature, loneliness is nothing more than the lack of information and the ability to exchange and share it.
However, even with a wide range of contacts, most girls continue to wonder: "Why do I feel lonely?" And the reasons here lie much deeper than simple human communication.
Why are women lonely?
Lonely and beautiful women - this is a classic case, which can be found today. And they themselves do not abandon the relationship. Just can not meet even one candidate. In search of acquaintances, modern girls and women use special websites, ask friends to introduce them to them or organize a meeting, visit places where there is a chance to meet someone new. But, as a rule, this is possible only in isolated cases. So why even beautiful girls are lonely? The point here is not in appearance, but in the inner component.
As we have already found out, loneliness is a lack of impressions and communication. If you want to never ask yourself the question: "Why am I alone?", Try to understand yourself and understand what kind of impressions and sensations you are missing. Or maybe you just inflated the requirements for yourself and others? Let's say that many do not understand and often ask the men themselves why the good girls are alone. And from where do unfamiliar people and the first acquaintances know that they are good? Hence, not everything is so good, if you can not find a soul mate. And you only need to blame yourself for it. First of all, in order to eliminate this problem it is important to understand yourself. So, let's look at the reasons why the girls are alone and try to fix it:
- How do you perceive yourself. If you are visited by the thought that you are not so smart, not so beautiful, not so successful and just not worthy of love, this undoubtedly affects the opinions of others about you. Do not engage in self-flagellation. To love you, first of all, love yourself and be confident.
- Do not wait. A very common mistake of single girls is that they are sitting at home and having limited the circle of communication they expect that fate will give them the very one. Often go to people, make new acquaintances and lead an active lifestyle. Only so you will be able to notice and appreciate.
- Another common reason why there are so many single women in the world is a feeling of mistrust towards the male sex. Many girls tend to blame men, for the fact that their personal life does not add up. It is widely believed that all men are the same, unworthy of love and will certainly betray, quit, etc. It is not surprising that with this opinion on the personal front, nothing happens. Excessive coldness and neglect can alienate the very person with whom you will be happy. If you come across only those men who did not suit you, reconsider your attitude to the male sex as a whole.
- Appreciate and respect freedom. If your relationship with a man is only gaining momentum, remember that in addition to personal life, each person has their own interests and hobbies. Infinite reproaches, jealousy and claims do not promise you anything good. Do not demand from the man of constant attention to you, and he will necessarily repay high interest to you.
- Look for the golden mean. Do not chase after several men. Choose the only one with whom to start a relationship. In this case, do not talk too much about your past failures in love, and even more so for the eyes express emotions in the direction of their former.
- Stay yourself. Many girls try to look like their more successful and enterprising girlfriends. This imitation, too, will not lead to a good result. Appreciate what you have and remember that they will love you for your individuality.